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Petya, thank you so much for this generous interview and engagement with my work!!! You really get it and I hope to read or chat more about your relationship to food. I have actually read a bit about food in Bulgaria in my research of recipes under various political-economic conditions!

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So cool! Food is such a fertile ground for reflection for me right now - as an immigrant, as mother of a daughter, as someone concerned for the environment and also about the homogenization of culture...All the things you write about.

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Love this interview so much! Alicia's response, "Being social has never been high on my list of priorities", is totally a green light for me. Really enjoying this series, Petya.

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Yes. A common thread among us readers.

I love the series too! The best thing is sniffing out who is actually a reader with a deep love and respect for reading. it is amazing how many people (including many writers) are not!

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Tbh, when I listened to two recent interviews with Liz Gilbert, how she framed that your people are *really* your people and, without being rude, those aren't really just aren't also feels like a meaningful differentiation? Equally, she also said that she doesn't have spaciousness in her life for writing if she doesn't prioritise solitude which is another green light for me. I need plenty of surface area free in my brain to engage with writing both from the writing and the reading sides of it all.

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I think that being on the internet a lot has shown us that if you need light, topical friendships... you can get that without leaving your house. And I don't think that's a bad thing. I love my Substack friendships where we talk about books, etc. without really knowing much about each other's personal lives.

And that, for me, means that if I am leaving my house and putting on a bra to meet you... you have got to be THE REAL DEAL, true, deep friend for me.

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I completely agree with her recommendation to put the phone in another room. I turn off the ringer on my phone, turn off the computer, play some soft jazz in the background, and just immerse myself in the words.

I never read based on reviews. In fact, I rarely ever read reviews.

I am not famous and haven't published a single book, but if you are ever in need of someone to interview, I offer myself as tribute.

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Honestly, technology is the biggest reason we are not reading! Both in terms of time and what technology has done to our brains.

I would love to talk you in more depth about your reading life, especially because I know you have been a big reader through many life transitions!

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Oooo, so looking forward to reading Alicia's forthcoming memoir! Fabulous interview!

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Thank you for reading and I am with you, can't wait to read. If you are new to Alicia's writing, she has linked a lot of her published pieces on her website, which I highly recommend. And, of course, the substack!

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I wasn't familiar with Alicia but NOW I AM! Subscribed and did some reading and I am so grateful you wrote this! I'm also very interested in her book and I'm thinking it would be a good Christmas gift for my husband!

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I love the issues where you interview others about their reading styles and approach. And kudos to Alicia for reminding me to crack open my own Knaussgaard after a long break. I’m on book 3. I like that she gets writing ideas from magazines. I am intrigued by this idea.

To answer one of your three questions. I don’t read based on reviews but if a book keeps popping up in my life then I take it as a sign that I need to read it. I like to take recommendations from friends I trust (you’re one of them!) and find my next read on my own as well. I am always interested in a book club.

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